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Benjamin Franklin’s 4 Habit-Formation Method

oscar-larach-zablah-mom-i-can-hopscotch-can-you-hopscotch-try-it_t20_g8k6X7Benjamin Franklin, inventor, statesman, writer, publisher, and economist, says in his autobiography that he determined to work on moral perfection early in his life. He prepared a list of 13 qualities and assigned each one a page. He provided a synopsis for each virtue, giving it more depth. After that, he practiced each one for a certain amount of time.

Franklin can devise a system for grading himself on his daily deeds in order to make these qualities a habit.

He wrote a table in his diary with a row for each virtue and a column for each day of the week. He placed a mark in the relevant column every time he made a mistake. Likewise, he concentrated his emphasis on a new virtue each week. Furthermore, he believed that, with practice, he might one day be able to enjoy the pleasure of «seeing a clean Book.»

He claims he has been conducting this personal evaluation for years. He chose to tackle each virtue and a fourth of its importance one at a time in order to complete the task fully. Likewise, he started with temperance, which entails controlling every pleasure or inclination to form bad habits, because temperance “tends to procure that coolness, clearance, and head that is so necessary where constant vigilance is to be kept up and guard maintained against the unremitting attraction of ancient habits and the force of perpetual temptations.”

Silence, order, resolution, frugality, labor, truthfulness, Justice, moderation, cleanliness, calm, chastity, and humility were among the other qualities Franklin practiced in succession. In order to complete the summary order, he followed a daily schedule. He spent his mornings from 5 to 7 a.m. in bodily personal attention, reciting a short prayer, reflecting on the day’s business and resolutions, learning, and eating breakfast. He worked at his craft from 8 a.m. until 12 p.m. Furthermore, he dined and read his accounts from twelve to one o’clock. Not only that, but he worked at his craft from the age of two to five. He spent the remainder of the evening till 10 o’clock in music or some other form of entertainment.

This time is also utilized to put things back in their proper placements. The final task before retiring was a review of the day. At the age of 79, he attributed his good health to temperance, adversity to effort and frugality, and his country’s trust to sincerity and fairness.

Franklin’s great achievements in life and politics may be linked to his determination to overcome his own flaws and his ambition to improve continually.

Take some time to work on your own personal notebook the next time you truly want to accomplish something. What is the temptation that is preventing you from achieving greatness? What can you do to develop the habit of success?

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Get Used To Entrepreneurial Failure

oscar-larach-zablah-failure-twenty20_58962650-e479-4fc3-a96e-df881605d811 (1)You must learn to deal with failure if you want to be a successful business.

There’s no getting around it. Before demonstrating the first incandescent light bulb on October 21, 1879, Thomas Edison performed over ten thousand different experiments. Traf-O-Data, Bill Gates’ first venture, was a flop. “I’ve missed more than 9,000 shots in my career,” Michael Jordan was famously quoted as saying. I’ve dropped nearly 300 games. I’ve been trusted to take the game-winning shot 26 times, and each time I’ve failed. In my life, I’ve failed several times. That is why I am successful.”

I’ve failed more times than I can remember in my brief career as an entrepreneur. I’ve got my share of success as well, but it’s nowhere near comparable. The failures significantly outnumber the victories, and I’m certain I’m in for a lot more. That’s ok with me since I know that if I stop failing, I’ll stop attempting to innovate. It’s the nature of the entrepreneur’s business, and of success in general.

Everyone would do it if it was simple. It’s naïve to believe that every excellent concept you have would turn into a profitable business. “Every single concept I come up with appears to work,” I have yet to hear one entrepreneur declare. More than likely, you’ll hear something along the lines of «I failed at my first five enterprises before finding success with this one.»

Consider it for a moment. There are five different enterprises. The number can be three or twenty, but the point is that most entrepreneurs do not have a home run with their first business. It truly astounds me – how many individuals have the audacity to fail five times and then start a sixth? You must be utterly confident and approach the sixth time as a learning experience from the prior five. If number six fails, you must repeat the process and go to number seven.

The most crucial factor, in my opinion, is how you handle failure. You can learn from your errors and move on once you recognize that it’s unavoidable. It’s easy to get consumed by failure – not because you’re pessimistic, but because it’s difficult to watch something you put your heart and soul into being neglected or rejected. You must realize as quickly as possible that it is your business, not you, that they are ignoring or rejecting. The sooner you do so, the sooner you’ll be able to objectively assess why you failed and learn what you need to know to better in the future.

Failure is difficult and unpleasant, but it is an unavoidable part of success. Still don’t trust me? Thomas Edison, Bill Gates, and Michael Jordan are just a few examples. To be fair, asking Thomas Edison could be a little difficult, but you get the point.

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Take a step forward to the challenge, and change

Oscar Larach Zablah Take a step forward to the challenge, and changeCHANGE is sometimes frightening for people since it is linked to changing the routine and the resulting instability.

Note that when individuals state that they are in a rut, they often refer to situations that have been the same for a long period. INTEREST and MOTIVATION have been gone.

You would not be pondering CHANGE at this time if you were HAPPY as your life is.

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Oscar Larach Zablah: Healthy Environment For Self Esteem

Healthy self-esteem originates in the environment found in the: family, school, peer group, work place, and community. There are certain characteristics of your environment that need to be present in order for self-esteem to be fostered and grow.

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The main component of a healthy environment for self-esteem is that it needs to be nurturing. It should provide unconditional warmth, love, and caring.

It needs to provide the realization that other people are recognized as deserving to be nurtured, reinforced, rewarded, and bonded to.

A Healthy environment for self-esteem transmits messages of warmth, loving, and caring by physical touch, meeting the survival needs of food, clothing and shelter, and providing a sense of stability and order in life.

A healthy environment for self-esteem should provide acceptance.

It will recognize that other people see each other as worthy individuals who have a unique set of personality characteristics, skills, abilities, and competencies making them special.

Acceptance enables people to develop relationships with others, yet maintain healthy boundaries of individuality within themselves.

In the healthy environment for self-esteem should be good communication, everyone should be heard and responded to in a healthy way, so that healthy problem-solving is possible.

Appropriate giving and receiving of feedback is encouraged and rewarded.

Communicating at a “feelings” level is a mode of operation for these people, allowing them to be in touch with their emotions productively.

The healthy environment for self-esteem must contain recognition and acceptance of people for who they are.

That recognition and acceptance should not be based on the condition that they must first conform to a prescribed standard of behavior or conduct.

This is unhealthy. Unconditional recognition and acceptance given in the form of support allows individuals to reach their ultimate potential.

The healthy environment for self-esteem should be clearly defined and enforced limits known to individuals with no hidden tricks or manipulation.

Limits set the structure for the lives of individuals, allowing clear benchmarks of appropriate and inappropriate behavior.

Limits enable individuals to recognize their responsibilities and to chart their course of behavior in a rational way.

Respect and latitude for individual action within the defined limits of the healthy environment for self-esteem should be present as well.

This encourages individuals to use their creativity, ingenuity, and imagination to be productive within the established structure.

Restrictions that suppress individuality can lead to a narrow focus, with people becoming stunted and handicapped in the use of their personal skills, abilities, and resources.

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Finally, a healthy environment for self-esteem should be bonding, which is the physical/emotional phenomenon between individuals and the others in their environment.

This is necessary for the development of healthy self-esteem.

Bonding is forming a mutual emotional attachment between an individual and a “significant other” (parent, child, friend, lover, etc.).

This involves the significant other giving unconditional love and support as well as developing an emotional link between each other.

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